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Jan Denise, nationally syndicated newspaper columnist, author, and speaker
“Naked Relationships” brings the science of relationships, the art of loving, and the mystery of spirit together. It gives people the most comprehensive guide available to understanding relationships while inspiring them to practice the art of loving so that they can live what they have learned. Then, it leads them to the miracle of oneness that is only available on the other side of conscious love. And that oneness, of necessity, begins with self-awareness, self-love, and self-alignment.

The only way for people to be truly happy is to align with their essence, which is love. Still they seek love, as if it were an elusive treasure outside of themselves, to make them feel validated and complete. They cannot find it outside until they have found it within.

Naked love is the fusion of what our bodies and our spirits yearn for, the untainted indulgence of our sensuality, and alignment with our divinity. We want a partner to know all of us, to drink us in and proclaim acceptance, to have his (or her) way with us, without stifling us, and without marring us or the union ... and, we want to reciprocate.

Jan Denise affirms the dream of naked love and the miracle of living it.


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My favorite review so far...it doesn't get any better than this :-)
Jan, my beautiful friend, you have done it. You have written, no....you have sung, put to music, a wonderful poem, a magical book. Thank you! I am having a hard time, actually a slow time reading it, it is so powerful, I have to stop every few sentences and catch my breath. Your heart is in this book. You have set yourself free, Jan. Is it not wonderful? Now would the rest of us do the same. You are leading the way. May you continue to be a guiding light! And a best seller! Wishing you angels and butterflies, John

“Jan Denise shows us how to find the courage to get naked, or to be honest. When we do, we find our authentic self — our greatness — and fall in love with who we really are. We find out how to cultivate intimacy, passion and commitment without losing who we are and without stifling our partner.”
Omega Institute

"...I think it's vital to get the 'real' info out there via eloquent writers like yourself who have the public's eye and ear. It's the only way to make a real difference and maybe improvement in people's relationship lives, health, and well being..."
Ann Weber, Professor of Psychology, UNC Asheville

"The only way to feel truly happy and loved is to be your authentic self. And Jan makes it easy to understand what that looks like with a romantic partner. Her columns add a wonderful new understanding to the lives of her readers."
Susan Jeffers, author of "Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway" and "Opening Our Hearts to Men"

"I am impressed. Jan combines the science of romantic relationships and her own insight to both enlighten and entertain the reader."
Martin Heesacker, professor and chair of psychology at UF

"Jan has a gift for understanding the many fields of psychology and delivering her results in a way that is entertaining and easy to remember."
Norman M. Brown, co-author of "Love and Intimate Relationships"


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“You can't create the wonder and beauty you want, but you can uncover them. And, I love to help.” — Jan Denise

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Dear Jan, Meeting with you one-on-one altered my life! Thank you! The breakthrough that occurred for me was an Aha moment. Suddenly, I “got” what I need to take off the glasses I have worn since my childhood, that have kept me from living my truth. This totally set me free to be — naked with the universe! Your wonderful insight and love had me see something I had never seen before. Thank you from the depth of my heart and soul. Love, Sue

This week's quote:
"Everybody prays whether [you think] of it as praying or not. The odd silence you fall into when something very beautiful is happening or something very good or very bad. The ah-h-h! that sometimes floats up out of you as out of a Fourth of July crowd when the sky-rocket bursts over the water. The stammer of pain at somebody else's pain. The stammer of joy at somebody else's joy. Whatever words or sounds you use for sighing with over your own life. These are all prayers in their way. These are all spoken not just to yourself but..." — Frederick Buechner

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I smile, and cry, think harder, and keep writing . . . because of you. Thank you for sharing your heart with me — and allowing me the privilege of sharing it with others.

Are you trying to make a decision?...
Thanks so much for your guidance. I'm really glad to have spoken to you this morning. It is a freeing experience to know what the "right" thing to do is, and I know, I really do know. Much love, Pamela
Truly be the best you can be...
Well, quite a talk we had today. Thank you so much. It helps to find out why I'm doing what I'm doing, but I feel a bit shaken, too. Like, "wow, I've been obsessing about Robin, putting him in this role, imagining things with him that we never really had." That can't be healthy for me. I know that he has his own "stuff" but it's similar, isn't it? We're both trying to fill voids. I think it's a little sad that we fall for the wrong people. Kind of like that old country song "Looking for Love in all the Wrong Places". I am already looking into yoga or pilates classes that I can start next week. That always was a good thing for me. Your help and wisdom mean so much to me. I hope I can truly be the best I can be. Love you, Holly
Need to be hit up-side the head?...
Thank you for your reply. It makes good sense, and sometimes we just need to hear what we're thinking from another source. Regarding the new friend/romantic interest, I know that you're right; sometimes we just need to be hit up-side the head a few times to see clearly, especially when its something we really want, but perhaps cannot have. Best Regards, Todd
Delayed gratification...
Yes, I find myself missing out on what I truly want and what do I want? Sex, but I want it in the appropriate way, but then what is appropriate in today's society? I tried many times over many years the delayed gratification only to end up with no results and regret; however, using the speed up gratification produced results short term, but not long term. Pleasure is achieved, but what if one wants two marshmallows? So what's best? You answered that, "live in the present, but not at the expense of the future you want." Rich
Moving beyond appearance...
Jan [from a client], I don't know how you find time to answer my emails. AND Jan that is not going to work...about seeing beyond "good looking." Why can't one have both (good looks and a loving relationship that's not just about sex)?
Jan's Response:
You can...but perhaps not until you truly learn which one is most important and stop obsessing about the other one. Love you, James, Jan

Hurrah! for nice guys!...
I've never emailed anyone after reading an article they have written so this is a real first for me. continue >>>

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